Pick A Card Tarot Reading: How Do I Talk to Him? 8.12.19

Hi everyone,

This is a pick a card reading done on 8/12/19. The date is just a reference. This reading works anytime you watch it. All in divine timing.


The spread is based on my balance check spread with a little extra. When Major Arcana Cards come up, Clarifiers are used to add more information to the reading. I pull until a number card comes up.

There is Emotion, Logic, Intuition, and Family Wisdom all taken in when the question of "How do I talk to him?" Is asked.

Decks used: The Cosmic Tarot and Notes from the Universe Oracle

Watch the video or scroll on to read the writing I've done. Watch the video if you want to hear the wrap up for each one.

Just a heads up, some of these readings turned more serious so if you are looking for something lighter, check out my other "How do I talk to him reading?".

And I have changed the shape of the spread for these. I'm thinking of using this new spread from now on for Pick a Card Readings.

Each pile has Citrine on it which promotes creativity, perfect for coming up with visualization to manifest love.

Pick a card pile to reveal the how to manifest love.

Pile 1, 2, 3 left to right.

1."Most People Are Just Trying to Survive"
2. "It's Not As If You Need Anyone"
3. "If They Once Loved You They Still Do."

Go ahead. Pick your pile. 😎

• Pile 1
• Pile 2
• Pile 3

Pile 1

Emotion: Five of Swords

Emotion Clarifier: None

Logic: Six of Pentacles Reversed

Logic Clarifier: None

Intuition: Princess of Wands

Intuition Clarifier: Five of Pentacles Reversed

Family Wisdom: "Most People Are Just Trying to Survive"

Your emotion says your person has suffered some destruction and loss. They could be cutting communication with you now.

Your logic says you have a desire for this person to be in a relationship with you yet because they have cut ties with you, the love that was there seems like an illusion.

Your intuition says you want to give up on trying to talk to them. Yet their absence makes your love for them deeper.

Your family wisdom says "Even though someone cuts you off you need to be sure you still treat them with respect as they are like you."

I say don't push it. If you are meant to speak, they will contact you. If they do, be respectful of them. You don't know what they've been through. Have compassion for them. Wish them well in a visualization. Imagine being kind to them if you hear from them again.

In my speaking of the cards I discuss a couple in separation. The man is in distress, The woman is independent. If this sounds true to you, I suggest you watch the 12+ minutes of channeled speak on the video.

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Good Luck.

Jess aka Sketchwriterjess

Pile 2

Emotion: Four of Wands Reversed

Emotion Clarifier: None

Logic: Judgement Reversed, The Magician Reversed, Temperance

Logic Clarifier: Eight of Wands

Intuition: Seven of Swords

Intuition Clarifier: None

Family Wisdom: "It's Not As If You Need Anyone"

Your emotion says your beauty has become more important to you since meeting your person. You want to make a good impression on them.

Your logic says the decision is you must go over the top to impress this person. You've got so much to offer this person. You've set an intention to reach out to them.

Your intuition says show them your best self. It's ok to attempt to show who you are to someone you want to get to know.

Your family wisdom says "To love someone understand them. Don't think of changing them."

I say there is no need to impress your person. Talk to them like they are you. Imagine sitting in the mirror and chatting with yourself. Ask yourself questions. When you meet the person, Think of what you are interested in and discuss your interests with them. Listen to what they say. Take it in. Think how what you say relates to them and keep the conversation going.

In the speak on the cards, I discuss a bass player and a potential rock and roll wife/ songwriter. If this sounds like it could be you, I suggest you watch the 13+ minutes of channeled speak on the video.

I hope you enjoyed this reading. Be sure to like, share, and subscribe if you want to see more videos and posts just like this.

Good Luck.

Jess aka Sketchwriterjess

Pile 3

Emotion: Six of Wands Reversed

Emotion Clarifier: None

Logic: Wheel of Fortune Reversed

Logic Clarifier: Five of Cups

Intuition: Ten of Swords Reversed

Intuition Clarifier: None

Family Wisdom: "If They Once Loved You They Still Do."

Your emotion says you are anxious about talking to your person. You are worried you'll lose control over the conversation.

Your logic says if you plan the conversation and it flops, you'll kick yourself for saying the wrong thing. You'll feel bitter.

Your intuition says there will be a temporary feeling of satisfaction with this person if the conversation doesn't go your way but works despite that.

Your family wisdom says "Loving someone changes you in a positive way."

I say don't try to control a conversation. And if you are talking to someone and you feel like they don't value you, let them go. Take what you've learned and move on.

In speaking of the cards I talk about a friendship turned sour, it doesn't have to be a relationship though it could be. If you are trying to figure out how to talk to a friend and/or lover and cut ties in a thoughtful way I suggest you watch the 15+ minutes of channeled speak in the video.

I hope you enjoyed this reading. Be sure to like, share, and subscribe if you want to see more videos and posts just like this.

Good Luck.

Jess aka Sketchwriterjess