In my search for love, I have turned up some deep questions in me as to why I fall in love and how it happens.
Why do we Search for Love?
Perhaps we want to form a bond with someone. A bond made from free will. Sometimes it seems fate steps in or we at least we want it to.
If fate steps in, then love is meant to be. Yet we know it comes down to one thing, attraction.
We are attracted to those we think can heal and nurture us and to those who keep our minds sharp. For when we have our minds, our hearts are free to share with those we care about.
I’m from Generation X. In my day when I was growing up in the 80s, many TV characters got into arguments and said thinks like “You’re cute when you’re angry.” and “I’m attracted to you.” And then they’d make out together with a smoldering kiss.
When I watched these shows as a kid, I knew I wanted love to be full of silly banter, honest conversation, and fireworks.
Why do we accept less love then we deserve?
I tend to fall for …